1 SOCIAL THE SPRINGFIELD UNION, SPRINGFIELD, MONDAY, JANUARY 31, 1955 SOCIAL Engagement Announced (Dora Clark Tash Photo) MISS JUDITH ANGELL Granddaughter of Mrs. Charles H. Angell of St. James is engaged to Robert E. Rothen of Mendum, N.
J. Home Jottings Children Need Punishment; Spankings, Yes; Beatings, No Writer Thinks Anything More Than Quick Slap or Two Calls for Study of Parents' Methods By ALICE SCOTT ROSS It's casy to become confused over force, Our attitudes are unsure whether they concern spanking the youngsters or shooting it out with the Reds. We're pretty helpless when comes to international affairs, though we've certainly done best by choosing the keenest mili-, tary mind in the country to direct our reactions in this quarter. but home management is something impossible to delegate. How About Parents Advice is helpful, of course, pecially when it comes from such respected source as Dr.
Ralph Greenson, clinical professor of psychiatry at UCLA's Medical School, even the good doctor. in vising that small fry be given whatfor. may have overlooked A few points. Parents can be as misdirected their chastisem*nt as the youngsters were in their naughtiness. Ask those of middle-age today who received yesterday's severe drubbings what scars they bear.
what bitter resentments. Such resenting ments will be worked out somewhere else. on someone else. The Flatteringly Feminine american designer pattern Miss Judith Angell To Wed in Spring Member of Springfield Fam- ily Becomes Engaged (Special to The Springficld Union) Mendum. N.
Jan. 30-Mr. and Mrs. Theodore Fisher Angell lol Mendum, formerly of field, have announced the engagement of their daughter, Judith, to Robert E. Rothen.
son of Mr. and Mrs. Edward M. Rothen of Mendum. Miss Angell was graduated from Dean Academy and Bates lege, Lewiston, class of 1951.
She is the granddaughter of Mrs. Charles Hart Angell of St. James Springfield, and the late Mr. Angell. Mr.
Rothen is a graduate of the Choate School and the Massachusetts. Institute where Technology, 1951, a member of Theta Delta Chi. Te served two years in the Air Force and is now Russell and Stoll of New York City. A late Spring wedding is planned. Attendants Named By Miss Pancari Is Feb.
19 Bride-Elcct of Francesco Delpiano A wedding trip to Italy will follow the marriage of Miss Angela Pancari and Francesco Delpiano which will take place Saturday, Feb. 19. The ceremony be at 9 in Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church. Volia Taddia of Springfield will be the maid of honor. Bridesmaids selected are Miss Nina Palumbo, Miss Jane Albano and Miss Joanne Consoline, all of this city.
Galluzzo Nobela of Springfield will serve Mr. Delpiano as best! man. Geno Cappuccio of Easti Longmeadow will usher. The couple will live at 35 William St. Miss Pancari, daughter of Mr.
and Mrs. Salvatore Pancari of William was educated in Locri, Italy and has lived in the United! States ployed for seven Victoria years. Dress Sing Shop. Mr. Delpiano, son of Salvatore Delpiano of Willow and Mrs.
Annunziato attended Delpiano schools of in Aversa, Aversa. I He is employed by Hampden Brass Co. Recently the bride-elect's mother entertained for her at a greenback shower in Grace Iall, William St. 100 guests attended. Friendship Circle Meets Wednesday Miss Wasuta Will Address Wachogue Group The program committee of Friendship Circle of Wachogue Community Church has engaged Diss Genevieve (asuta of the telephone.
company, for Wednesday's meeting. By recordings, and other means Miss is you" will her talk "Your voice demonstrate how the human voice listics. gives away personal characterA short business session will lopen at 1.30. Hospitality committec February includes Mrs. Steves and Mrs.
John Tarbell. Jo Copeland Clothes by Jo Copeland have sevcral special qualties, all summed up in figure flattering femininity. This year 'round basic dress cut on princess lines has only 14 pieces in the pattern, is easy to make, but still has detail that lifts above the usual and gives it a definite couturier look. Scemingly, the shoulder straps'38 are cut in one with to the side point gores just! and they are up a under the bust when they are released and faced, making an effective soft bosom line. It is a dress that can be worn to partics made up in party fabrics such as de soie, taffeta, brocaded silks but combined with a jacket (a white pique bolero is one idea) it makes a perfect day long dress for town.
Other suitable fabrics are: novelty cottons, shantung, pique, linen or faille. Miss 1. 4 Married in Pittsfield (Jay Te Winburn Photo) MRS. JAMES WHITE SAYRE Whose marriage Saturday in Pittsfield took place in the First Congregational Church. She was formerly Miss Ann Stevens Hibbard.
Miss Ann Hibbard Weds Dr. Sayre Pittsfield Church Scene of Afternoon Wedding Pittsfield, Jan. 30 Miss Ann Stevens Hibbard, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert S.
Hibbard of Foothill Farm, Lenox, was married to Dr. a James White Sayre, son of Mr. and Mrs. Harrison D. Sayre of North Drexel Columbus, and O' Woods, N.
Saturday afternoon in the First Church of Christ, Congrega-1 tional, Pittsfield. The ceremony, at 4.30, was performed by Rev. William C. Hart, minister of the church. bride, given in marriage by her father, wore an heirloom; dress of satin and pearl-embroidered net with a finger-tip length veil of silk net attached to a cap of pearl embroidery.
She carried gardenias and stephanotis. The matron of honor w'as Mrs. Fullerton Miller of Columbus, sister of the bridegroom. Other attendants were Mrs. Stewart F.
Lauer, of Pittsburgh. also sister; Mrs. Thomas S. Morse of Brookline, Mrs. F.
Talmadge Ed-, man Corinth, N. Mrs. James Evans of Rosemont, Mrs. Frank HI. Ittner of Pittsfield, Mrs.
Anthony R. Briggs of Lenox, and Misses Caroline E. Gratton, Sally E. Morse and Margaret McDougall, all of Cambridge. The matron of honor and the bridesmaids wore ballerina-length coral satin dresses and carried bouquets of Mamie Eisenhower carnations.
Their headdresses were wreaths of the same flowers. er, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. The flower girls A were Phebe Millerton Miller of Columbus, and Kate Morse, daughter of Dr. and Mrs.
Thomas S. Morse of Brookline. They wore short dresses of pink broadcloth and carried miniature bouquets of the same carndtions. Dr. Robert F.
Sayre of Columbus was best man for his brother. Ushers were Fullerton Miller and Keith McNamara of Columbus and Stewart E. Lauer, of burgh, brothers-in-law of the bridegroom; Ilenry M. Halsted, 3d, of Deerfield, John T. D.
Rich of Stamford. Dr. Maurice K. Kelley of Rochester. N.
Dr. E. William Davis of New York, Dr. John A. McLeod of Cincinnati, Dr.
John R. Hartmann of Cambridge and Drs. Bernard A. Ber-1 man and Thomas S. Morse of Brookline.de was graduated from the Shipley School.
Bryn Mawr, and Wheaton College, Norton. She has been a research technician in the pathology department of the Harvard Medical School. She is the granddaughter of tne late Judge and Mrs. Charles L. Hibbard of Pittsfield, and the late H.
Frederick Stevens of New York, and Mrs. Stevens of Abington, Pa. Dr. Sayre attended Deerfield Academy, Wesleyan University, Middletown, and was graduated from Cornell Medical College in New York. Ic has been research physician at the Children's Medical Center, Boston.
lie is the grandson of the late Mr. and N. Joseph Sayre of Madison, and the late Mr. and Mrs. James B.
White of Columbus. Friends of the Municipal Iospi-! tal Auxiliary will have a mectingi at the hospital Friday, Feb. 4 at 2' o'clock. The Misses Marian G. and Ann Lynch of The are Ambassador vacationing A ments, Maple in Florida.
Mr. and Mrs. Daniel Cleaves of Hartford recently announced the engagement of their daughter, Jane to James Anthony Christiana, son of Mr. and Mrs. James A.
Christiana of Carew St. The couple will be married Sept. 10. Miss Cleaves is a graduate of Hartford Public High School and is cmployed by Travelers Insurance that city. Mr.
Christiana is a graduate of Trade High School and. served in the Navy. He is in the electrical appliance repairing business. June Ratnowsky Is Temple Bride Marries Mr. Gordenstein in Candlelight Service Miss June Ratnowsky and Walter I.
Gordenstein were married Sunday at 6 o'clock in Beth El Temple. Rabbi Eliezer A. Levi performed the candlelight ceremony using the double-ring service. The bridal party gathered under a bower of southern smilax, white gladioli, carnations and gardenias. On cither side were tall candlellabra and urns of pink snapdragon and tulips.
Icather, camellias and carnations tied with blush pink ribbons decorated the aisle posts. Miss Phyllis M. Ratnowsky attended her sister as maid of honor. Robert Cordensteinveswas his brother's best Goldstein, Sheldon Rappaport, Seman Hochberg, Stuart Hettinger, Robert Kurn and Arnold Gordenstein, a cousin, a ushered. 'The bride's period gown of Italtian white satin brocade and tulle was styled with round neckline and short pushup slecves.
Her bouffant skirt had inserts of tulle. A finger tip veil of misty French illusion fell from her Queen Anne (l'own of pearls and she carried a Bible with cascade of stephanotis and Sinclair livy centered with miniature Georgianna orchids. The honor attendant was in a strapless gown of pink chiffon with matching tulle stole and pink leaf hat. She carried a cascade of Hermes camellias with center cluster of Carol Amling roses. A reception followed in the vestry.
For her daughter's wedding Mrs. Ratnowsky wore a gown of ice blue peau de soie embroidered in clusters of shells. The bridegroom's mother was in pale pink satin with pearl and rhinestones used in embroidery, Both wore miniature pink and white orchids. Also assisting in the receiving line were the couple's grandmothers. Airs.
Meyer Kuzon wore rose peau de soie and Mrs. Lena Ratnowsky chose gray lace over pink taffeta. Miniature baskets of pink puss* willows and tulips shading from shell to rose pink were used for ling the reception. The bride's table was adorned greenhouse smilaxc gathered with shell pink camellias and arrangements of pink tulips and pink sweetheart roses. Mr.
and Mrs. Gordenstein left! for Florida. Mrs. Gordenstein chose for traveling a black and white checked flannel suit with black and white accessories. The couple will live at 96 Longhill St.
The bride, daughter of Mr. and Airs. Samuel Ratnowsky of Laurel Longmeadow, is a graduate of Classical School and Mount Ida Junior College. a Sho attended Lesley College in Cambridge and is a senior in elementary educaItion at Springfield College. Mr.
Gordenstein, son of Mr. and Mrs. Harry Gordenstein also of Laurel Longmeadow, is a graduate of Technical High School and attended Georgia Institute of Technology where he was a member of Tau Epsilon Phi fraternity. Lincoln Jefferson PTA Plans Party Card Event Fcb. 8 Will Be In French Club Lincoln-Jefferson PTA will have a card party on Tuesday, Feb.
8, at the French Club in Chapin Ter. Bridge and canasta may be played and table prizes will be awarded in addition to many door prizes. Mrs. Alexander Scott, chairman of the ways and means committee. is general chairman of the affair with Mrs.
Leo Brodeur serving as cochairman. Homemade cake and coffee will be served during the evening by a large committee headed by Mrs. John Hoare and Mrs. Alfred Davis. Mrs.
Thomas Dunn. in charge of tables, has requested those to make up tables to take cards. Tickets may be purchased from Mrs. Robert Sitek or at the door of the French Club. A sale of candy will be conducted during the evening by Mrs.
William Baird. A son. Scott Alan. was horn recontly at Wesson Maternity Hospital to Mr. and Mrs.
Harold C. have A son, Barry. Mrs. Arthur Gray of Eleanor They also L. Noves of State St.
is the mother. Mr. and Mrs. Albert E. Cardinal of Cass West Springfield, announce the birth of a son Jan.
26 at Mercy Hospital. And Mrs. Mrs. Albert, E. Cardinal and Mr.
drew Tranghese, all of West Spring. field, are the grandparents. Wed in Sunday Service 9 land likes the skirt to take advantage of its full cut and suggests wearing petticoats. This pattern is cut to designer measurements, not standard pattern measureiments. Bust Waist Hips Sizes 31 24 33 inches 10 35 25 36 12 3612 14 28 39 16 40 30 40 18 Sizo 12 requires yards of 39 inch material for dress and 56 yard of 39 inch material for lining.
To order Pattern address Spadea Syndicate Box 533, G. P. Dept. S-15, New York 1, N. Y.
State size. Send $1.00. American Designer Pattern Booklet available for 25 cents. Airmail handling 25 cents extra. Make check or money order payable to Spadea Syndicate Inc.
and add cents for bank clearance. (Harcourt -Harris Photo) AIRS. WALTER GORDENSTEIN Whose marriage was an event of Sunday in the Beth El Temple. She is the former June Ratnowsky of Longmeadow. Wesley Group Will Meet Wednesday Miss Whitmire to Give Cooking Demonstration The February meeting of the Round Table Class of Wesley Methodist Church will be in the church dining room Wednesday at 7.45.
will be 3 cooking demonI stration Whitmire. given by Miss Margot Mrs. Orman L. Todd will lead the devotional period. Hostesses will be Mrs.
Kathleen Mac Donald. Mrs. Kate Crawford, Mrs. Leon Hutchins and Elmer Davis. WSCS to Sponsor Birthday Party Thursday Social Is for Wes- Members Thursday 'evening Wesley dist Church members are invited, to a birthday party at 7.30 at the church.
It will he sponsored by the Woman's Society of Service. There will be all kinds of fun including games, stunts and Mrs. A. WV. Crossman is man.
Others contributing are Mrs. Elroy E. Norton, music: Mrs. William J. Spence.
Mrs. Robert B. Clark, reservations and Miss Alfreda Skenfield, mimcographing. Dr. Leslie Johnbe master of ceremonies.
Park Memorial Guild to Meet Rev. Ralph Crandall Will Be Guest Speaker Rev. Ralph Crandall of the East Longmeadow Methodist Church will be the guest speaker at A meeting of the Women's Guild of Park Memorial Baptist Church. Tuesday afternoon beginning at 2 o'clock. Mrs.
Vernor Schenck will lead the worship period. White Cross sewing at 10.30 in the morning will begin volunteers the activities, and I needed to help complete a large quota. Luncheon will be at 12.30 under the direction of Mrs. Winslow Pellissey, and will be followed by the business session with Mrs. Ralph H.
Ilubbard, presiding. Satisfying Foods For Overweights By FRANCES SIDWELL The purists insist on serving plain unflavored, unseasoned food to those who are trying to lose weight. Perhaps their argument is that if foods do not taste good the dieter won't cat so much. Of course he won't. but neither will he enjoy his food nor stay on his diet.
SeaI son your diet food well with herbs, spices, vinegar, celery, mushrooms -any low -calorie pepper-upper. PICKLED BEETS Serves 6 35 calories per serving 12 medium sized beets 3 Tbsp grated horscradish 1 Tbsp sugar' 112 cups cider vinegar 1. cup water Tbsp salt 1. tsp caraway seed Canned beets (sliced) may be. used.
fresh heets are used, cook; until tender: slip off skins by holding running cold water. Cut into thin slices. Use a glass bowl or a pottery one. Arrange layers of beets sprinkled with horseradish and caraway seed. Boil vinegar, 'salt, water and sugar and pour over beets.
Let stand at least 24 hours before using. For 363 calorie dinner serve meat loaf with vegetables, green beans, pickled beets, Spanish cream and coffee. Ever team mashed turnips with mashed potatoes? Season with salt, freshly ground pepper, celery salt butter margarine. 1 The Mature Parent Here Is a Sound Philosophy On Nursing for Prospective Mothers home, perhaps, and those in it? What can 3 child do sO wrong that he merits A beating? Were minor mishaps overlooked until irritations resolved in this exhibition of parental retribution? No beating itlis ever administered without certain pleasure derived from it by the beats. If quick spat delivered the at Spankings? What is a spanking? the moment to emphasize need of a change in direction of behavior pattern, well and good.
Hurrah for spankings, should they be two or even three on-the-spoti reminders that "no" was meant as well as, said. One Example A child requiring more than this has flaws in the training leading up to the need of severe punishment. Let's look at one little boy's behavior as an example. Company was in and. following today's social custom, drinks were served.
The father laid down (his glass and quick-as-a-wink was overturned by his little boy who appeared from nowhere carryhis puppy. 'I didn't do it." said the little boy defiantly, "Bozo (the puppy) did it." The father raised his hand but the mother broke in with a protective "'Of course. you didn't do it!" Here's Another Let's look again: Not only were there five lively I children in the household but a new baby A3 well. the house. far from being a shambles.
had its exquisite knick-knacks within of even the smallest inquisitive fingers. Out in the trim kitchen, paddle hung where it could be quickly reached. "Oh. it sets used once in while." was the comment in a tone which held more determination than grimness-a whack at the right time as quick and ready medicine. Can the undisciplined administer discipline? Does becoming a ent bring clear thinking.
force the disappearance of traits that can prove as vexing as any that children disclose? Could not "Physician cure thyself" be especially applicable parents? Earl H. Chapin of Gillette is ill at Springfield Hospital. Mr. and Mrs. Lester M.
Jones. Dubois Indian Orchard, are the parents of a second daughter, Marion, born at Wesson Maternity Hospital recently. Their other daughter is Kathy. Grandparents are Mr. and Mrs.
Llewelyn Jones of Conshohocken, Pa. Announcement is made by Mr. and Mrs. William Freeman of Riverton of the engagement their daughter, Mary Lou. to Frank IV.
3d, son Frank W. Carey, of Park Palmer. Miss Freeman is a senior at High School of Commerce. Mr. Carey is attending Palmer High School.
The couple has set no date for the wedding. -t Good Manners Make Friends If you want to invite the Smiths who are house guests of the Browns to dinner, it is gracious to invite the Browns, also. That is true even if the Smiths are close friends of yours and you know the Browns only slightly. Prevent mildew of clothes by storing them in the refrigerator until time to iron them. You'll also find they iron easier.
Woman's Guild To Meet Feb. 4 Students From Abroad Will Speak at First Church The February meeting of the Women's Guild of First Congregational Church will be on February! 4 at 12:15 in Calkins Hall. Mrs. Maurice M. Chaffin will be the chairman and Mrs.
Everett W. Whitchead will lead devotions. "Getting acquainted with the world' will be the guild topic, and Rev. Richard E. Harris assisted by four students from' Springfield College will present the program.
The students are Heman Gargory from Lucknow University. Lucknow, India; Miss Flora T. Violanda, from Cebu. Phillipines: Eduardo from Leopoloville, Belgiun Congo. These young people are among the students who will participate in the International Weekend sponsored by the church.
All women of First Church are invited to attend this meeting. Reservations may be made with Mrs. Thomas Kilpatrick or Mrs. William Mr. and Mrs.
William P. Mc-i Donald of Somerset recently announced the engagement of their daughter. Jean Audrey, 10 Roy Rabideau. son of Mrs. Leona Rabidcau of Easthampton.
The wedding will be 19 in Holy Name Church. Miss McDonald a graduate of Classical High School and is a junior at Westfield State Teachers College. Mr. Rabideau was graduated from St. Michael's High School.
Northampton, and Westfield State College. He teacher of Maple St. School, Easthampton. Mr. and Mrs.
Frederick Tourtellotte of South Westfield St. have announced the engagement of their daughter, Barbara Chency, to Gordon Gottsche. son of Mr. and Mrs. Carl J.
Gottsche of Main Aga-'not wam. The bride-elect is a graduate of Agawam Iigh School is employed by Springfield Gas Light Co. Her fiance was craduated from Agawam High School, and is a senior at the University' of Massachusetts. THE SPRINGFIELD UNION'S Juvenile Hobby Club DIRECTED BY CAPPY DICK FAKE PHOTOS AT A PARTY: A make-believe photographer's studio is fun 10 have at A partitions a homemade camPrA. the photographer poses his subject in front of the lens, crouches beneath black cloth, FIG -I presses bulb and, an instant later.
produces a finished "photograph" that in no way resembles the subject. With all the other guests watching, the finished picture is sure to make everyone laugh. The camera is just a cardboard box equipped with an imitation lens barrel and a rubber bulb from an old perfume atomizer. These parts are shown Figure 1. The 'photographs" produced by the camera are funny pictures drawn in advance and stacked inside the camera.
After he presses the bulb, taking the picture, the photographer reaches inside camera, takes a picture off the stack and hands it to the subject. The camera is easy to make. Cut a hole in one end to receive the lens barrel which is a piece of mailing tube or the core of a roll of paper towels. After taking the rubber bulb from a discarded atomizer, attach to the camera with a heavy string. Paint the outside of the camera black.
Mount it on a tripod, if you have one, but, if not, just set it on the table. The black cloth for the photographer to place over his head when he focuses the lens can be 3 shows obtained from Figure use and Figure 2 shows examples of the funny "photos" that can be drawn ahead of time. Tomorrow: Plans for Making Fancy Bracelets From Wire! (Copyright, 1955) 5 By MRS. MURIEL LAWRENCE Last week 1 attended the annual mecting of the Association for Rein Nervous and Mental Disease. Its members said many things about children.
I thought that Dr. Frederick H. Allen of Center said Philadelphia's the best Child thing: basic essential in' a child's emotional health is in the interflow problem of communication. Its flow from you into your baby will perfectly interpret that essential "spontaneous warmth" to his primitive understanding. It is the beginning of language between you and your baby.
You are seldom told this in time to use it for your decision. of spontaneous warmth between him and his mother." At the mecting's end, I say holed nursing him. I an asked, infant "Would represents you the first interflow of spontaneous warmth between him and his mother?" He looked at me with interest. "Yes," he said. "I would say that.
But if you quote me as saying please add that there is no reason for woman who cannot feed a baby to develop. a phobia about it." So, now that this noted child psychiatrist has reassured mothers who can't nurse babies, let me address the prospective ones who don't know whether they can or not. Your obstetrician will not make your decision to nurse or not to nurse for you. lIe will probably face you with it at a time when your pregnancy is becoming heavily burdensome. It will be hard for to see.
your baby in the weight you carry. Mostly, you will see only that you wish you had your body to yourself again. And when you ask your young mother friends to help you with your decision, they will say, "Oh, dear, don't. If you nurse your baby, your life won't he your own again for months. Pediatricians have wonderful formulas today.
Forget the breast-feeding. Anyone can give the baby his bottle if you are tired or Jim wants to take you away from the drudgery for an So let me put this to you: Upon his birth, your baby will be a primitive creature. His eyes, so long used to the unfocused darkness, will not see you. cars, so long insulated against noise, will register the words speak to him. His infancy will maroon him in remoteness from you which you will be unable to penetrate by any communication familiar to you.
The milk that will appear in your breasts will appear to solve A 1209 Handy Hamburger FIG -3 FIG-2 A smart weekly marketing purchase always is a few pounds hamburger. Price-wise it's real attraction--and it's the handiest of meats to have around. Junior Joves hamburgers for lunch and Dad finds them most satisfying of late evening "snacks." In addition, the family loves its tasty dinners of meat balls with spaghetti and chili con carne. When you bring hamburger home from the store, if you do not expect to use it that day or the next, freeze it. If you don't have a regular freezer, you can freeze the hamburger in your ice cube section for a week.
In freezing hamburger, good idea to make it into individual patties and wrap in freezer paper or foil. Then when you want to cook a patty on short notice, you can out. and cook it without thawingne Pears Zippy Pears Zippy For a light but taste-teasing salad, grate sharp cheese over canned Bartlett pears and serve on a bed of salad greens. Add a bit of French dressing of course, for extra zipl 5440.
